Miss independent (",)/'

Everyone has a different definition of sexy. in my 22 years I attempted to define what the word "sexy" meant to me. However, I left out one keyword - independent.


It’s a well known fact that most guys are intimidated by powerful women. They simply can’t handle it. For some, a woman that is fully capable of taking care of herself and doesn’t need a man in her life is a giant blow to the male ego. It takes a very confident man to be with an independent woman. He has to be secure with who he is and rarely doubt his ability to please her. He must understand that although he may not be needed in her life, he is wanted in her life. I love independent partner, I would be lying if I said i dont like this kind.


There are so many 20-somethings (both guys and girls) out there that don’t have a clue what they are doing! They are in dept up to their eyes but instead of working to pay off that debt, they decide to just travel the whole city and live this carefree "I’m going to find myself" the word of their lifestyle. Sure that modern day hippie sounds all poetic and fun, but it’s not long before reality comes along to slap them in the face, waking them from their dreamy state. They don’t know what they want to be when they grow up, despite the fact they’ve been a grownup for years! They teeter back and forth about going to school or going back to school and have thier goals They really haven’t given much thought to the future or set any long term goals. Most haven’t even set short term goals! So they drift aimlessly from one location to the next, one job to the next, and one relationship to the next. And when it comes to love, their track record consists of binge drinking and hooking up, rather than any actual dating or a real relationship past. This is why an independent man or woman is sooo refreshing!


so for me


I want a 20-something (",) that has direction in her life and not only knows what she wants, but is already well on that path to achieving it. She knows who she is, where she’s been, and where she is going. And she wears hundredths cost of branded clothes during every step of the way, not to flaunt her success, but because she’s worth it! She has earned it. She is strong. She is sexy. She is Miss Independent. And yes, although a rare breed...